December 5, 2008

It's Not Easy At All

If you think that love is simple, you might need to think again. Through a series of examination and selection, the "temporary" final outcome revealed. However, no one can guarantees that feelings won't change and stay the same for good. You made your promise, and tried hard to keep your promise. Somehow, you just don't have enough energy to carry on. The more you get to know each other, the more you need to accept something out of your expectation. The more things you find that you can't accept, the more problems you need to face. The more problems occur, the more effort you need to make to communicate with each other to find optimal solutions. After these tiring processes, if the couple still don't break up, then that's what we called "Love conquers all." But sadly, the quick pace of living in this world and lots of other tempting selections waited out there makes this type of everlasting love gradually become a precious legend.

I doubt if I also lose the patience to overcome the obstacles in my relationship. Will something not right from the start be something so right in the end? Hints are more or less sent in the conversation. I hope that we have the wisdom to comprehend each other's messages, and try to put them into real-life practice. Otherwise, we are destined to be the passers-by in each other's life.

Is my value rotten? Or am I just too proud to appreciate the world from a different angle? Being too stubborn? Too many priniciples? Maybe it will be much easier if I stay single.

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